Hi roofus, cant describe how much i miss you, i was just looking at the piece of paper from the psychic and it is impossible for her to know what she knew, she said you were sorry for missing my 21st and so tell your only daughter that she was your everything and that you were happy now that your with your little dog (todd) everything she said it felt like you were standing right next to me, i really do believe that you are watching over us, charl is so strong you must be so proud! i'm sure you can see how nan is doing but she has mum and lynne and they are so strong :). i think of you everyday ruth i love you so so much i miss you pushing me around on the trolley in asda and me mum shouting at us xxxxxxxxxxxx